t/relationship advice 7 ago My girlfriend uses the n-word and absolutely hate it Hey everyone. I'll try to make it short. So we are both white, my girlfriend and have been together for about two years

t/relationship advice 7 ago
My girlfriend uses the n-word and absolutely hate
it
Hey everyone. I'll try to make it short.
So we are both white, my girlfriend and have been together for about two years.
We're in an open relationship, but it's pretty one-sided. She's the one who sees other people
while don't.
At some point began watching them when she’s with her partners. (only when they allow it
of course)
Now basically all of her partners have been Black men and this is absolutely no problem for
me, in fact really enjoy the contrast of their skin.
But here is the problem. When she's with a new partner, she'd ask if she can use the n-word
during sex. Some allow it, some don't. But if they she starts using it so frequently and
careless like she's on a kkk rally.
feel really uncomfortable about this and honestly, think it's racist. But don't know how to
approach her about this. being too sensitive?